Explore Dark Side of Fetish Dating
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Fact: Almost 65% of people in the U.S. have tried a kink or BDSM at least once. You’re in great company, so why not make your next hookup one you'll never forget?
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What Makes Us Different?
TenderBang always gives you what you want: quickly, privately, and exactly how you want it. Our matching system is designed to make you feel good right away. Ever scrolled through a dating app and thought, ‘Where are all the people who’d tie me up and then debate the best way to fold a fitted sheet?’ Well, congrats—you’ve found your people. You can sort people here by age, gender, sexuality, and location, and then get right to the action. There are no long forms or uncomfortable introductions—just pure fetish match excitement.
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LIVE Community FOR KINKSTERS
Imagine a place where ‘What’s your sign?’ is replaced with ‘What’s your safeword?’—welcome to your new favorite fantasy factory. It's not just a website; it's a real, live fetish community. You'll be part of a group of brave kinksters who know what they want and aren't afraid to get it at Tender Bang. People are always ready to share, try new things, and meet in our live chat rooms, groups, and event boards.
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- Join group chats and live video chats
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We understand—safety and honesty are a priority as you explore your kinks. That is why TenderBang promotes #SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) in all areas of our site. We urge all members to authenticate their profiles so that you know you're conversing with real singles and not bots or fakes.
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- Profile verification badges for trust.
- Facebook sign-up for simplicity
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- Strict moderation to prevent creeps
Nearly 90% of BDSM practitioners say honest talks about limits make them feel safer and more secure. At Tender Bang, we make sure you can focus on the fun, not the fear. Let’s be real—if you wanted small talk, you’d be at a coffee shop. But since you’re here, how about we skip to the big talk… and maybe some bigger toys?
Inclusivity and Gender
You are welcome here no matter who you are or how you identify. Everyone is welcome on TenderBang.com, regardless of their gender, sexuality, or combination of both. It's up to you to decide who to show yourself to and who to hide from, thanks to our smart screening system.
Allow yourself to be you without any criticism. This is a place where freedom rules and shame is left at the door. This is the place where you can be fully yourself, whether you are straight, trans, non-binary, or something else. Some people collect stamps. Others collect… well, let’s just say your ‘hobby’ involves a lot more rope and a lot less glue. Our fetish website isn't a cookie-cutter dating app; it's a festival celebrating all kinds of people.
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Have fun on your terms, the way you want to.
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Really, why settle for a fantasy when you can have the real thing in your own neighborhood? Geolocation and smart AI help TenderBang find kinksters near you who share your interests. No more looking for hours on end—just hot nearby matches ready for a fetish hookup tonight.
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With online platforms as the top way to find partners or communities, you’re tapping into a massive network of pleasure-seekers.
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Are You Ready to Play? Start Right Now!
You're in good company—nearly two-thirds of people have looked into kink or BDSM, and searches about fetishes have grown by over 190% since 2020. So don't make up fantasy scenarios, live your life. With TenderBang, you can have the sexiest, naughtiest, and most memorable fetish dating experiences ever.
Tired of explaining your kinks to wide-eyed normies? Here, we start with ‘So, how do you feel about sensory deprivation?’ and go from there.
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